Thursday, 18 November 2010

How To Get My Ex back If Wanting More Space Is the Issue

Your seemingly wonderful relationship is suddenly torn apart because your partner wants more space. This could be the result of a number of reasons wider family problems, insecurities, or a fear of commitment just to name a few. Here are some tips for answering the age old problem of getting back with your ex.

  • You are not going to want to lose your pride, but clearly you are still in love so it may be an idea to play a little bit hard to get at first, in order to show that yes, it was a loss but you are getting along ok on your own.
  • If you are feeling like your ex still has feelings for you, then it may be ideal for you to strike up a conversation. Keep communication to a minimum in order to keep the level of drama to a minimum. Short text messages, brief phone calls and online conversations in passing are all a great reminder of how much your ex partner wants to be a part of your life, however, do not be overwhelming with your presence.
  • Your ex will eventually begin to show significant interest in you again if all goes well, and this will give you the chance to truly begin to reminisce. Keep in mind that you should focus primarily on all of the good memories associated with your relationship in the past, stay away from the bad experiences and negative experiences in case they conjure bad feelings and undo your hard work.
  • If you sense a lack of response to your slow and subtle advances, just take it for what it is. Either there really is no interest at the moment or your ex does just need space and you should accept this. But if on the other hand if there is interest then you should continue gradually advancing to rekindle the relationship.
  • Once you feel the right signals, you can try to open up your heart and show how you feel, but avoid looking desperate or needy in the process. If your ex is taking positive steps to rekindling things, then it would be healthy to be completely open. But if the signals are pointing in the other direction, it may be wiser to step back and let things happen more naturally.

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