A need For Understanding
Although it helps to understand what women and men want and need out of a relationship, it’s important for you to assess where it all went wrong in your own relationship. Often there are multiple issues being the cause for your relationship troubles. You need to assess the damage and acknowledge where the problem lies.
Is it a communication problem?
Ask yourself these questions
Do you find yourself constantly arguing about trivial matters or problems aroused from misunderstandings?
Are you simply too different in terms of your life goals and ambitions?
Are there outside forces tearing you apart?
Has your relationship simply turned stale and lifeless?
Ok do you recognise the problems then move on to step 2.
Are your differences reconcilable are you both prepared to compromise or do you face the ultimate question
Should You Break Up?
If the differences between you are too great then is it time to be realistic and face the inevitable decision to split up.
Most relationships can be salvaged if the people involved develop the ability communicate openly and honestly (and on a regular basis). But if one or both of you is unable or unwilling to discuss important issues then there is no foundation for a secure relationship.
Not many people realize but there are simple mistakes that should be avoided if you want your ex back. However, respect for a partners point of view and understanding a bit about human nature goes a long way in trying to rebuild a failed relationship.
Remember it takes two to tango but like the dance if you are in complete unison it leads to a wonderful experience.
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